Sunday, November 6, 2011

Saturday, November 5, 2011

KENYA THROUGH MY BEDROOM WINDOW:

(I wrote this on Saturday, but my internet hasn't been working for a few days, so I couldn't post it.) 

There are so many sounds I’ve heard through my bedroom window that help to describe what life is like here – different sounds at different times of the day…

Morning:
Samuel’s roosters crowing, tropical birds of all kinds singing melodiously, planes flying overhead, a child crying, padlocks being unlocked, heavy metal gates clanging shut, people talking loudly as they walk down the dirt road beyond my wall, my ascari (David) shuffling just outside my bedroom working in the yard, filling his bucket with water, raking fresh cut vines, talking to Pauline (when she was here) at 6:00 AM through her bedroom window next to mine, his radio blasting at 5:50 AM from his guard house, noisy trucks bouncing down the dirt road, people arguing, the pounding of a hammer, rain pouring down, a Muslim chanting prayers at 4:45 AM, and on Sunday all different churches preaching and singing.

Midday:
Crows cawing, planes flying overhead (so low that I can see their landing gear, they leave a shadow through my window as they pass by, and conversations have to stop completely until they pass, or you won’t hear what is being said), children laughing and playing at the FPFK church’s school, FPFK’s minister preaching from two blocks away (their microphone is ALWAYS on full blast) or singing from the choir, someone calling out for an ascari to unlock a gate, busy traffic clear out on the main road.

Evening:
4:00 brings more planes for about two hours, children talking busily on their way home from school around 6:00, Friday night starts up with the church’s microphone again until around 2:00 AM, Samuel’s singing church hymns from his room or calling out to me, “Hello”, through my window to talk to me without startling me.


Night:
A scrawny cat meowing to get into my house, cicadas chirping, monkeys calling, more music and preaching from the microphone, a bushbaby (a mammal smaller than a monkey and very cute) in my yard screeching, toads croaking in my yard during the twelve days of rain awhile back, something sort of growling (not sure what!).

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Tuesday, November 1, 2011



I’m going to backtrack to fill in on all that’s happened lately.  I hope this makes sense because I’ve been giving you more current news that’s been happening during and since some of this information.

I mentioned that Pauline came here from Germany on Tuesday, Oct. 18.  She is the owner of my home and Samuel’s sister.   The first couple of days were okay because she wasn’t around much and then left for Nairobi on Thursday to deal with some family business until Sunday night. 

I told you that Samuel came home from Nairobi on Sat., Oct. 22 and he, Grace, and I went into Mombasa.  Later that day, I went to Ternet’s village.

When Pauline first arrived here, Samuel gave her notice that he only wanted to work for her until the end of December.  (He told her now so that she would have plenty of time to find a replacement.)  Well, on Monday, Oct. 24 right after she got back from Nairobi, she hired a new ascari that very day and told Samuel he was no longer working for her.  So he was now out of a job with no advance notice.

On Tuesday, October 25, we played Sharks and Minnows again for PE at school, and I made arrangements so that I only had one class.  I also gave instructions inside before we went out.  It worked a lot better than last week.  I had planned on starting with stretches, then Sharks and Minnows, and then a relay, but I ran out of time.  We played the game and did some stretches.  I told them next week we'd do the relays.

I still found it difficult to play because there are no lines for boundaries, and even though I told the kids where they were, they didn't follow what I said (what a surprise!) and seemed to get confused.  I'm beginning to think they have never had to play games with boundaries before.  You should see how they play football!

After I got home from school, the missionaries came over and met with Samuel, Grace, another sister of Samuel’s that lives here (Lucy), and me.  We had another good discussion, and Lucy set up a separate time to meet with the missionaries the following Tuesday because she’s not in the same place in learning as Samuel and Grace are.  Then I went with the missionaries again to Kenneth’s and swam.  Nobody was around to give lessons to, however.

On Thursday, shortly after I arrived home from school, Lucy and Pauline got in an argument over Lucy’s passport that she said Pauline has had for 7 years which ended in Pauline calling the home security guards.  Lucy started arguing with them and Pauline ended up taking Lucy to the police station with the guards.  People with money here can buy off the police and get them to do whatever they want.   Lucy was put in jail for two full days with no way to get out!  I heard today that there were 10 people in the same small cell – both men and women – with no bathroom even.  They all had to go in front of each other!  I can’t even comprehend that!  I’ll comment more on this later.

When Samuel heard about what had happened to Lucy, he went to the police station to see if there was anything he could do to get her out.  Neither she nor he has any money, thus she had to stay.  Because Pauline didn’t like what he did, on Friday, she told Samuel he needed to move out of his home (she owns the plot and home) by Monday and that he had to leave Ukunda.  She would pay to move his things wherever else he wanted to go.  So now, he was without a job, income, home, and being told to leave the city he is familiar with and has friends and connections for work!

By Saturday, Grace pled with Pauline to reconsider so that at least their children could stay here until school was out in about 3 weeks.  If they missed the final exams, they would not be able to go on to the next class, thus they would all have spent a whole year in school for nothing (not to mention the cost to Samuel and Grace).  Finally, Pauline relented and let them stay but said that if Samuel did one thing wrong, he would be out immediately.  (Yesterday, she changed her mind again, and said they could only stay until December.)

I’ve already told you about Sunday. 

Yesterday, Samuel and I rode a matatu just to the ferry and met Bro. and Sis. Scott.  I was able to get Diane’s ticket cleared, I hope, Samuel exchanged a couple of the clothes I bought his family that weren’t the right size while we went to Kenya Airways.  We ran a couple of other errands, but by the time we were finished, it was 1:40.  There was no way I could get back to school in time (I had previously told Peter that might be the case), so we ended up going to lunch before heading back across the ferry.  They drove us all the way to my house, which was a real treat!  It was so good to have a different set of missionaries to add additional input into Samuel’s questions.  We had a great time all in all.

                 Interesting mailboxes in the Posta (post office) in Mombasa


Unfortunately, shortly before we arrived home, Samuel found out that his house had been robbed!  Can you believe that?!?  They have so little anyway, and now, the guy stole their one good mattress that cost almost a month’s wages for Samuel, he took Grace’s identification card, her bank information and bag, her sufferine (I don’t think that’s the right word, but it’s the only pot and stand that she had to cook her food with charcoal – you saw a picture of it earlier), and he took ALL of Samuel’s pants except for the dress pants he wore to Mombasa with me and the levis he had on before we left that he just threw into a bag to hurry and leave.  So he has only 2 pants to his name!  Grace was actually over at my house washing drapes and laundry for Pauline when it happened around 11:30.  She had gone home to start cooking some beans, ugali, and tea, then she came back to my house.  The guy even ate all that food!!!   He obviously knew that no one was going to be coming back any time soon. He had gone through everything in their house and things were displaced everywhere.  He also took all their sugar (a big thing here).

He got in by cutting a hole in the chain link fence on the side of their yard.  He even left his flip flops.  Several people in the neighborhood saw him walking down the street bent over with the heavy mattress rolled up on his back and everything stuffed inside and tied down, but no one questioned him.   That’s not an uncommon sight.  They all described him as wearing a white cap like Muslims do, a black shirt, and white pants.

So as soon as we got home, Samuel had to walk all the way back to the police station to report the crime.  You can’t just call the police here.  He had to stand in line for a few hours and eventually got to speak to someone, but it was late by then, so they said he’d have to come back on Tuesday (today).  I fixed a good chicken dinner with rice and vegetables, cut up some tomatoes, and gave it to Grace and Samuel when he returned home to take home and feed their family.  I figured they had enough to worry about last night without having to figure out what they even had to cook or how to cook it!  Thank goodness for the Campbell’s Cream of Mushroom soup Troy brought me, and the Lipton’s Onion soup mix I brought with me.

To add insult to injury, after Samuel was home for a while, Pauline wanted to meet with him.  She had previously said she would pay him his Ksh 7000 (approximately US$70.) for Oct., and would pay him Ksh 7000 for Nov. and the same for Dec.  So he was expecting Ksh 21000 from her.  She decided to only pay him for Oct. and kept out Ksh 1000 to pay on his electricity bill (which was only Ksh 669!).

Needless to say, he looked like a whipped puppy.  I couldn’t stand to see that!  I had bought a King James Bible from Bro.  Scott when Samuel got out of the car in the afternoon.  I was going to surprise him with it at some point.  After looking at him and Pauline was finished with him, I said,  “Come here, I have something for you.”  We went to my room and I handed him the bible.  He hugged me and almost started crying, then he held it to his chest and with a big smile on his face, he said, “I am the happiest man in the world!” and at that moment, he was.  His whole countenance changed and he felt like the richest man on earth.  He was thrilled to have the same bible like I have with all the cross references, the Bible Dictionary, and the Topical Guide. 

Today, in fact, Grace told me that he was up very late into the night reading it and at one point, she found him outside praying.  I’m continually astounded by their faith and trust in God that He is watching over them, that things happen for a reason, and that all will be well.  They’ve said that many times in the past two weeks.  Yesterday after the robbery, Grace kept saying, “What am I going to do?”  Then, she said, “I still have my two hands and many things.”

Pauline finally left to go back to Germany this morning.  She’s Kenyan, but totally puts Kenyans and Africans in general down.  I’m glad to get rid of her negative energy in my home!  She’s been like a tornado coming into town and has destroyed everything in her path leaving rubble everywhere.  I hate to say it, but GOOD RIDDENCE! 

Lucy met with the missionaries today, but Grace had to deal with her stolen identification card and Samuel spent the morning with the police, so they didn’t meet with the missionaries.  Samuel even had to pay for the police’s taxi to take them to the house to inspect it and make the report!  He spent the rest of the day trying to get on a bus for Lamu (Ksh 1000) where he and Grace have a piece of land near where her mother lives.  He’s never seen it, so decided before he starts a new job, he needed to travel the 9 hours by bus to see where he will eventually build a home when they can save some money to move there.  He will arrive there tomorrow morning around 5:00 AM and will come back the next day and start looking for work.

I went to Louis' home again with the missionaries when they finished with Lucy so I could swim.  We couldn't get hold of anyone at the house when we got to the dirt road, so we ended up having to take a motorcycle (my first Kenyan motorcycle ride).  To have three or four people on one motorcycle is not uncommon here.  I wish you could see the motorcycle we were sitting on, but the driver was about to drive away, so we had to hurry with the picture.

                                Holding on for dear life.

Sorry this is such a long blog tonight, but I needed to get the whole story out before I quit.  Please forgive me on this one.

Sleep well and please pray for Samuel’s family,
Kadi

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Sunday, October 30, 2011



Time is going by so quickly!  I only have 25 more days in Kenya then it’s off to South Africa.  I found out Friday that next Friday is my last school day.  I thought it was the following Friday, but apparently only Class 8 goes to school that week for their exams.  I took my laptop to school last week and showed Class 5 my video of them from last year.  They quite enjoyed it.  I also showed Class 4 some of my personal pictures of my family, home, places I’ve visited, etc.  They, too, were excited to see my pictures.  Several of the students stayed in during their lunch hour just to see them.

My nephew, Troy, and Louis arrived here Friday night at midnight. It was so good to see them!  I felt like I finally had a tangible connection to the United States again.   I saw them yesterday when I went to Kenneth's daughter's baptism at Louis' swimming pool (since they don’t have a baptismal font here).  They stopped by this morning to see my place and invited me to a spaghetti dinner this afternoon.  Troy brought me a couple of things I asked for and totally made my day - 2 cans of cream of mushroom and 2 cans of cream of chicken soup, 3 cans of green chilis, 2 cans of clams, Smarties for the kids at school (I brought some but it isn't enough because I'm teaching about 80 rather than 30 kids), and let me borrow the fly swatter from his room at Louis'.  Who would have thought someone could get so excited over a can of Campbell's soup?!?  It was like manna from heaven.  My cooking possibilities have just expanded significantly.
                                                Jessica ready for baptism

                                                 After her confirmation

          Samuel, the Elders who are teaching him, and me after the baptism

                                                  Kenneth and Jessica

I'm going into Mombasa tomorrow with Samuel, my former ascari (guard).  I've got to go to Kenya Airways’ Corporate office to solve a problem on Diane's ticket.  I need to show them my credit card and ID and have them notate it on her ticket, since I paid for it with my American Express card and she won't have it with her when she goes to check in.  I've also got a couple of other things to do. 

Right now, the Kenyan armed forces have attacked the Somali pirates after they kidnapped 2 people and killed 1.  That is just the most recent problem, but it finally pushed them into taking some kind of action to let Al Shabaab and Al Quida know they are tired of sitting back and taking it.  In the process, things have begun to heat up more even in Nairobi, and Mombasa (about 17.5 mi. from where I live) has stepped up their security measures on the ferry and other places.

I'm a little nervous to ride on the ferry again not in a car with everything that's been happening here with Al Shabaab.  A mzungu (white foreigner) stands out in the crowd, and that's who they are targeting.  The senior couple missionaries are going to pick us up on the Likoni side of the ferry so I won't have to walk on with all the hundreds of Kenyans.  They'll drive us across the ferry into Mombasa and take us to the three places we need to go, then take us back across the ferry, where we will catch a matatu again to get home (about 45 minutes each way).    Hopefully, I’ll get home in time to get to school by 2:00.  On Monday, I only teach in the afternoon.

Today, Samuel and Grace came over and watched the Sunday Morning session of General Conference with me on my laptop.  That’s what we would have been doing at church in Mombasa today anyway, so we all decided we could do that at home and save ourselves 3 hrs. of driving time.  The three of us enjoyed the talks we heard.

I took a matatu down to the end of the road, and Troy picked me up to go have dinner.  After dinner, I decided to jump in the pool and swim some laps.  Eventually, I ended up at the ocean with Kenneth and Abraham’s kids.  We swam out quite a way in the ocean although it’s very shallow.  Then, they wanted me to teach them how to do somersaults in the sand.  They had a great time, but looked pretty funny with their dark brown skin covered with white sand.  Later, I gave Evelyn a swimming lesson.  This certainly wasn’t my typical Sunday!
                              Kenneth and Abraham's kids ready for flips

                                                         Flips
                                                          All of us

It just dawned on me that tomorrow is Halloween.  They don’t celebrate that here, and since it’s spring heading into summer here, it doesn’t feel like time for Halloween, either.

Happy Halloween Everyone,
Kadi

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Thursday, October 27, 2011



I don’t know where to begin tonight so much has happened since I last wrote.   My internet modem stick has been dropping me so much lately, that I’ve had a hard time staying online.

I’ll backtrack to last Friday.  I took school off last Friday so I could go into town and shop with Grace to buy her family some clothes and to go to a wood carving shop.  Kenneth was going to take us.  As the day went on, he said he wasn’t going to be able to go because of other business here.  By the time he told me that, it was too late to try to go to school, so I just hung out for the day and didn’t do much.

Saturday morning, Kenneth was going to pick us up at 9:00.  I had now decided that it might be smart to have Samuel with us because he knows Mombasa better than we do.  The time got pushed back to 10:00, and then Kenneth again decided he couldn’t go until later in the afternoon.  I had to be home by 4:00 to catch the school bus to go to Ternet’s village, so that wouldn’t work. 

Ultimately, Samuel and Grace convinced me to take a matatu into town.  It’s about a 45 min. ride just from here to the ferry, then we’d have to get on the ferry with a mob of people, and catch another matatu on the other side.  That was SO NOT appealing to me!  Samuel said he’d be my bodyguard and also make sure that I got into the front seat of the matatus.  I finally consented.   We left here about 11:30.

It wasn’t quite as bad as I expected going in.  In fact, it was much more comfortable to sit up on the top deck of the ferry and feel the ocean breeze rather than sitting in a sweltering car with no air.  Once we got off the ferry, it was kind of fun to walk around where all the little carts and vendors were and even through a small park rather than observing it through a car window like I’ve always done.

                          The last of the people getting off the ferry.

                                            Shops by the ferry.

                                 At the park by the ocean close to ferry.

Catching the matatu in Mombasa, crossing the streets, and shopping were a bit more adventurous.  Grace or Samuel would even take my hand (like leading a little child) to help me cross the street or to keep me out of any perils.  It was really quite endearing.  They both tried to protect me from everything that could possibly harm me.

The worst part was going back across the ferry.  All the people have to stand on the sides in a gated area until the cars are loaded.  If the gate gets closed at the back of the people and you aren’t inside, you have to wait until the next ferry.  We were inside the gate when all of a sudden the whole crowd just started pushing and shoving.  I literally felt myself moved by the crowd with no way to stop or control it.  I was completely pinned in by people.  Samuel stayed directly behind me, and Grace directly in front of me.  Nonetheless, that was really scary to me!  I thought, “This is exactly how people get trampled and die in mass hysteria!”  I DO NOT want to repeat that experience!!!  Apparently, that’s what happens when they are trying to shut the gates.  People shove and push to get inside the gate before it closes.

We only had time to shop for Samuel’s family.   Even so, I just barely made it home in time to wash my feet, change my shoes, wipe off my sweat, and head off to the bus stop for Ternet’s house.

Ternet’s village was most enjoyable.  I’ve made a video of what I saw there, but for some reason, it won’t download onto my blog.  Does anyone know if there are constraints on how long a video can be to download to blogspot?  It’s almost 15 mins. long.   I probably should have made it into two parts.  I think I’ll hold off on telling you about it until I decide there’s no way I can download it.

Sunday, Samuel went to church with us again.  This time, they had a TV set up and we watched the Saturday morning session of General Conference.  Then, the women went off to Relief Society while the men sat through two more hours of the Priesthood session.  We ended up leaving before it was totally over.  That was a very long day!  We left at 8:30 and got home after 3:00.  They’re doing that again next Sunday.  We may just stay home and watch it on my laptop.

Later on Sunday, I took the clothes for Samuel’s kids over to their house to surprise them.  They were so excited.  It was really cute to watch them.  It was like Christmas.  I had them close their eyes and put their hands out in front of them.  I placed their outfits on each of their hands before I would let them open their eyes.  I had already given Samuel his new white shirt (for church) and Grace her maternity dress.  The kids got into their new clothes, ran outside, and started twirling around in excitement.  Here is a picture of all of the in their new clothes.

                                Eyes closed with surprises on their hands.

                                   Seeing their surprises.







It’s been a really crazy day.  I think I’ll stop for tonight and finish this tomorrow.

Sleep well,
Kadi